There is such a lot of emphasis put on looks and we are bombarded with advertisements telling us how to look more sexy, glamorous or young, but the truly decent and caring guy does not expect us to look sexy, glamorous and young and would prefer a woman who looks intelligent, serious and interesting as well as pretty. Any guy who decides who to date based solely on her looks and whether or not she dresses sexily is probably only interested in sex, so why bother with him? Albaset
When you are trying to find men online then use this as a guide. If the guy goes on about photos, looks, measurements, size, he is shallow or only thinking about sex. A truly intelligent and loveable man would realise that your hobbies, job, lifestyle, background, education, family are as important as your looks if not more so. Likewise it should be important to you that the guy has more than youth or looks to offer otherwise he might turn out to be the most boring, stupid or nasty partner you have ever had. Any good agony aunt will tell you that!